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Unitarian Church of Sharon
4 N. Main St.
Sharon, MA 02067

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A Visit to Our Partner Church

Congregation gatheringIn March 2002, Beth and Amanda McGregor had the chance to learn first-hand about the Unitarians of Romania. We visited Unitarian headquarters in Kolozsvar/Cluj, Romania, a Unitarian high school, the theological seminary, and best of all, we spent a weekend at the home of our partner church minister, Erika Demeter, and met with members of our partner church in the town of Gyulakuta. We also attended a service at one of Erika's other congregations, where we were warmly welcomed and the structure of the service was familiar (though the language and the hymn tunes weren't), right down to the lively, good-humored congregational business meeting after the service.

We then met with representatives from Gyulakuta in the afternoon. The 18 members we met with were warmly hospitable, delighted and moved to meet us, plied us with coffee, homemade wine and pastries, and asked many insightful questions about the U.S. and American Unitarians. We talked about visions for a collaboration of partner churches to help bring micro-credit to small scale economic development projects (businesses in dried fruit and gourmet mushrooms were two of their ideas), but decided that for now we could best help by subsidizing their minister's car and a discretionary fund for emergency needs. Erika Demeter, our partner minister, is one of the new generation of Transylvanian ministers, in both age (29) and progressive thinking. She and her husband Levente Lazar, 32, met at the Unitarian seminary in Kolozsvar/Cluj, and live in the modest parsonage of his main congregation in Czokfalva with their 3-year-old son. They serve five congregations between them, tend a huge garden and chickens, and Erika plays, with gentle resistance, the traditional village role of minister's wife as well as minister. Despite some language barriers and their extremely busy schedule, we enjoyed long, interesting talks around their kitchen table (over hearty food and homemade plum brandy) about national and church politics, their work, and daily life.

Although we had brought your cash donations with us, Erika refused them, wisely insisting that we first establish a relationship with the people of the Gyulakuta congregation, who should decide with our congregation about how any money should be used. Thus Beth brought back the money and a proposal to our Board of Trustees to establish an account for the uses they had specified. The Board adopted the proposal, and in late April Rory McGregor was able to enjoy a visit with Erika and her family and bring with him a signed letter of commitment from our board.

We hope that this relationship will evolve, even over the barriers of language, culture and distance, and that others of you will have a chance to correspond or visit and make a personal connection with our fellow Unitarians in Transylvania. Communications to the congregation can be sent in care of the minister: Rev. Erika Demeter, Trei Sate-Cioc nr. 23, Jud. Mures, Romania.

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